Friday, February 15, 2008

Choosing Bridesmaids

It wasn’t difficult for me to choose my bridesmaids, but it was hard for me to ask two of my close friends to be ushers because I know they were hoping to be a bridesmaid.

Did any of you all have that problem?

I did…unfortunately. One of my childhood friends was really disappointed and even said that she didn’t want to attend my wedding because she didn’t want to be considered an afterthought when I asked if she would be an usher. I was really hurt by that, but I know that if I were asked to be an usher for her, that I would be sad, but I would understand and just be there for her. What are your thoughts?

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